I had an ATR shift last Saturday evening so I couldn't get up to the Leisure Centre to see it, but (as you probably know) Simon Pearce and Nicky Mackay boxed so that there could be a charity evening in aid of Nicky's father Alan, who was paralysed in a fall on the Heath early this spring (only a week or so after Nicky had had a very bad fall at Chelmsford in which he broke his thigh, which kept him out of the saddle for six months or so). Nicky's fall was terrible, but Alan's was even worse, especially as he didn't merely break his back, but all his ribs too. The ribs heal in time, but the spinal cord doesn't, so he's in a wheelchair for the rest of his life. Thank God he can still use his arms, but even so it's a devastating disability.
Alan's a remarkable man. He's one of the few people I know in Newmarket whom I've known for longer than the thirty and a half years that I've lived here. He's spent his life doing the impossible. You've always heard stories of him doing things that, if it were anyone else, you'd just think were exaggerated and/or made up - but you've known that, as it's him, they'll be true, and that you're probably only getting a watered down version of them anyway. You never know how anyone will cope with facing up to paralysis, but there was always a chance that Alan would rise to the challenge unbelievably well.
I'd heard that Alan was handling paralysis in his own inimitable style, so my opening gambit was, "Alan. Hi. It's John. I hear you're getting around OK?". Even knowing how tough and uncomplaining Alan is, and how one should never be surprised by anything he does, I was still blown away but his matter-of-fact reply: "Yes, I'm doing fine, thanks. I just can't walk". He said it as matter-of-factly as the rest of us might say, "Yes, I'm doing fine thanks. I just get a slight twinge in my shoulder every now and then." Unbelievable. Absolutely inspirational. A true hero. (But then we knew that anyway).
So, with apologies to the heroes of National Hunt racing, we've just ended November and my nominations for Heroes of the Month have to be Nicky (seen in the fourth paragraph, on Ethics Girl at Yarmouth a few years ago, led up by Hugh Fraser) and Simon (seen in the fifth photograph, on a young Roy at Yarmouth a few years ago) - and, of course, Alan (seen here on his daughter's pony, on Hamilton Hill only a week or so before he was hurt) himself. Anyone who rides in a race, Flat or jumping, deserves undiluted respect - but at least in a race, dangerous though it is, the other competitors aren't deliberately trying to hurt you. If I had to ride in a race tomorrow or step into the boxing ring, I'd start cleaning my saddle and digging out my breeches now. Simon had fought previously (he fought William Carson in the spring) but I think that it was Nicky's first time. Heroes both - just like the man for whom they were doing it. Respect.
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